Congratulations on your engagement! We are delighted to walk alongside members of our congregation who wish to enter into Christian marriage. If you are new to St. Paul’s and looking for a church to make your spiritual home as a married couple, we would love to connect with you.
At St. Paul’s we affirm that “marriage is a gift of God and a means of God’s grace, in which man and woman become one flesh. It is God’s purpose that, as husband and wife give themselves to each other in love, they shall grow together and be united in that love, as Christ is united with his Church” (Book of Alternative Services).
We value Christian marriage very highly and want to prepare you for the joy of this lifelong covenant. Our marriage preparation process has two steps:
1) The Pre-Marriage Course, a five-week class on the skills required for a successful marriage, which is offered every January.
2) Pre-marital counseling for the couple with the priest performing your wedding (usually 3 sessions).
Both steps are required for a wedding at St. Paul’s. Couples should plan to complete the course and the counseling before their desired wedding date.
Marriage is an extension of the worshipping life of our congregation, and we are pleased to offer marriage to active members of St. Paul’s. Couples wishing to be married at St. Paul’s are expected to be regular participants in the church for at least three months prior to the wedding. If you are new to St. Paul’s and would like to be married here, we invite you to use this time to determine if you would like to make this church your spiritual home as a couple.
At least one member of the couple must be baptized prior to marriage and all marriages at the church must be performed by St. Paul’s clergy.
Please note that we uphold the marriage policy of the Anglican Diocese of Toronto, which directs churches to “treat with respect the diversity of views about the theology of marriage”, a diversity that exists in our congregation, as we learn and grow together.
If you are ready to take the next step, please fill out the form below and a clergy member will be in contact with you.